Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Family Restoration

Hey everyone!

So, I was actually talking to a friend over the weekend and we got on the subject of family issues. One that was particularly interesting to me was absent family members. What I mean by an absent family member is a close member that dies or a close member that leaves the family for other reasons (divorce, personal reasons, etc). I was curious not about what your thoughts were about leaving, but about the restoration of the family after. Do you guys think that a family can ever be fully back to “normal” after a family member leaves the family? Also, does it vary depending on whether the family member died or whether they left by choice? Who do you think has the hardest time returning to “normal”, older members or younger members? Why? I can’t wait to see what you guys have to say!

On a side note, since it is nearing Halloween, anyone want to share what they’re going to be?? :)

Thursday, October 21, 2010

Revised Blog Schedule

Hi, all!

Meagan has volunteered to post for our remaining missing class member week, so here is the revised blog schedule:

October 28: Sybelle
November 4: Meg
November 11: Frances
November 18: Meagan
December 2: Kathryn

Thanks, all!

Family or Peers

Hi, everyone!

Sorry for the late post. I totally forgot to revise the blog schedule when we had so many people drop the course. So, it looks like next week we're going to need either Meg or Sybelle to switch weeks. I'm just going to randomly assign one of you and it's Sybelle. So, Sybelle, you will be responsible for coming up with our blog topic next week and then Meg will do the following week. We have one more week where Genesis was supposed to come up with something, so do I have any volunteers? Posting a topic that week will count for a quantity post credit, so that means you then only need to respond once more that week to earn full credit. So, let me know if there are any takers!

Anyway, I'll just come up with the post this week. First, who do you think is more influential on a child--the child's family or the child's friends? Why?

Second, who do you think a child is more likely to listen to--his/her family or his/her friends? Why?

Have at it!

Thursday, October 7, 2010

Family Traditions

Hey everyone!!

So the other day I was thinking about how excited I was about Halloween (favorite. holiday. ever!!!! I mean how can you beat free candy all over the city and wearing fun costumes, not to mention the epic scary movie marathons??) and it got me thinking about one of my favorite childhood memories. When I was little, my parents would always decorate the house like crazy for Halloween and I loved helping them out with it (even though often times I'd do more damage than help haha). It was like a ritual - every second week in October we'd go out and get the supplies (you know the drill, spider webs galore and skelton figures) and start decorating. I always loved feeling close to my family that way.

Most of my families traditions revolve around decorating for the holidays (don't even get me started on what we do for Christmas haha) as well as the food that my mom cooks (she make the most amazing green chile stew and beans ever. But maybe I'm a little biased on that account haha). My mom is hispanic through and through and although she speaks even less Spanish than I do, she still carries these cooking traditions as part of her heritage because they're things that her mother taught her. My dad is mostly Italian with a bit of German mixed in there and he doesn't do much cooking so I don't experience as much from those two cultures, but for some reason I definitely have the talking with my hands thing down. haha. Anyway, now that I've finished rambling, I just thought this would be a good opprotunity for us to share some of our family traditions.

What's your favorite family tradition or what's the biggest tradition that stands out to you in your memories of when you were little? How do you think following these traditions has influenced you as a person? Why do you think that you enjoy these traditions so much? Do you have traditions that have been passed down from previous generations to those of your parents? How big of a part does your family's background play in the traditions that you partake in?